Gentlemen, this is Mantelligence.Today, we’re showing you 8 of the best ways to keep a conversation going with a girl.As most guys have experienced, keeping a conversation going with a girl you like can be pretty tough. But if you know some basic tips, a few powerful ricks, it becomes surprisingly simple.So.... to help you talk to women, here are 8 powerful ways to keep a fun conversation flowing with a girl.
1.The hardest thing about talking to a woman is knowing when to keep talking and when to let it go. Sometimes you’re just not getting through whatever barrier there is and she isn’t interested in continuing the conversation with you. The best thing to do then is to break contact, walk away, and never talk to her again because she will not be returning the favor.
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2. Ask The Right Type Of Questions
While asking a lot of questions is better than not asking any,asking the right ones is a far more powerful way to keep the conversation engaging.What exactly are the right types of questions?They’re open-ended ones, that go beyond the surface level, and show her you’re really interested.Not only do they tell you more about her,but they also keep her genuinely engaged and involved in the conversation.
3. You've had a great conversation and you think she feels the same. Now is the time to ask her if she wants to see you again...unless of course, she comes out and says 'yes' - then you don't need to worry about it. There are a few questions that I like to use in this situation because they will either force her to say something (which could be positive or negative) and also, they make her think. That might sound a little mean, but it's really not - it just makes the conversation longer, which is a good thing right?
4. Search Out Her ‘Conversational Leads’
Here’s a surprise most guys might not realize at first:Women are constantly handing you topics that they want to talk about,and if you’re really listening, you can learn how to easily easily pick up on them.For example: If she says something like“I need a vacation,”she probably wants to rant about her job or something stressful in her life.Now, by picking up on those cues, not only do you show her that you’re listening to her,but that you can also have more than a surface-level conversation.
5. Don’t ‘Filter’ Your Thoughts.
Don’t filter your thoughts. I know this is easier said than done, but I know it’s possible. Pause and think before you react, and don’t let the fear of messing up cause you to mess up even worse. It might feel like a lot of pressure to not include any filters with your words, but it shouldn’t be.
6. Don’t Panic When There’s Silence
I've noticed a type of almost silence in every conversation. Whether it's me and my friend having a deep discussion, someone at a networking event trying to extract information from me or the parents at the public school ceremony, there is usually this slight pause.
7.Don’t “over-compliment” a woman before getting to know her better—give her a sincere compliment only when the conversation is really going well.
8. I think we can agree that great conversation is an important part of meeting, dating, and getting to know girls.It provides a chance for you to convey your personality, demonstrate your intelligence and sense of humor, and also potentially build attraction with a girl.